Getting Along: How to Work with Anyone (Even Difficult People)

Getting Along: How to Work with Anyone (Even Difficult People)

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  • Create Date:2022-08-29 06:52:01
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
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  • Author:Amy Gallo
  • ISBN:1647821061
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Summary

Named one of "22 new books…that you should consider reading before the year is out" by Fortune

A research-based, practical guide for how to handle difficult people at work。

Work relationships can be hard。 The stress of dealing with difficult people dampens our creativity and productivity, degrades our ability to think clearly and make sound decisions, and causes us to disengage。 We might lie awake at night worrying, withdraw from work, or react in ways we later regret—rolling our eyes in a meeting, snapping at colleagues, or staying silent when we should speak up。

Too often we grin and bear it as if we have no choice。 Or throw up our hands because one-size-fits-all solutions haven't worked。 But you can only endure so much thoughtless, irrational, or malicious behavior—there's your sanity to consider, and your career。

In Getting Along, workplace expert and Harvard Business Review podcast host Amy Gallo identifies eight familiar types of difficult coworkers—the insecure boss, the passive-aggressive peer, the know-it-all, the biased coworker, and others—and provides strategies tailored to dealing constructively with each one。 She also shares principles that will help you turn things around, no matter who you're at odds with。 Taking the high road isn't easy, but Gallo offers a crucial perspective on how work relationships really matter, as well as the compassion, encouragement, and tools you need to prevail—on your terms。 She answers questions such as: Why can't I stop thinking about that nasty email?! What's behind my problem colleague's behavior? How can I fix things if they won't cooperate? I've tried everything—what now?

Full of relatable, sometimes cringe-worthy examples, the latest behavioral science research, and practical advice you can use right now, Getting Along is an indispensable guide to navigating your toughest relationships at work—and building interpersonal resilience in the process。

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Reviews

Darya

Relationships are key in personal and professional life。 This book provides a summary of archetypes of people that are difficult to deal with as we as helps to gind a way around such relationships。 There is plenty of useful information, life examples and great advice。

Paul

I'm sure this will help some readers。 It's yet another book about putting people in buckets and then using that as a basis for interacting with them。 It can be very helpful。 It's just not what I was seeking。 There are some very effective ideas here, so read some other review before you make a decision about this one。Thanks very much for the free ARC for review!! I'm sure this will help some readers。 It's yet another book about putting people in buckets and then using that as a basis for interacting with them。 It can be very helpful。 It's just not what I was seeking。 There are some very effective ideas here, so read some other review before you make a decision about this one。Thanks very much for the free ARC for review!! 。。。more

Srinivasan Tatachari

I am not one who believes a lot in “type”s of personality such as the MBTI。 This book is actually about 8 archetypes of difficult personalities you will find at work。 In that sense I was not impressed, but since this is a genuine problem we all will face in the workplace on a daily basis, it seemed to help。 No one will fit neatly into one type and Amy admits that clearly - which makes me more comfortable believing in these types。Another interesting side effect which looking at possible archetype I am not one who believes a lot in “type”s of personality such as the MBTI。 This book is actually about 8 archetypes of difficult personalities you will find at work。 In that sense I was not impressed, but since this is a genuine problem we all will face in the workplace on a daily basis, it seemed to help。 No one will fit neatly into one type and Amy admits that clearly - which makes me more comfortable believing in these types。Another interesting side effect which looking at possible archetypes of my difficult colleagues was my own ‘type’ - I could see myself as being one of the few types and in that sense a side effect of this book was introspection about how I may be a difficult person to get along with, for others。I liked how Amy has detailed each archetype - with a lead story and then delve into details of the type, the root causes of such personality, and then how to deal with them, finally closing with what happened next in the lead story。 Each of these sections are well articulated and researched, She candidly also admits many of these solutions will not work。 A summary chapter on the 8 archetypes and how to identify your colleagues type will be helpful for sure。I think this book is a very practical handbook on how to deal with people at work and I would be highly recommending it to my students in the organizational behaviour class。 。。。more